Thursday, December 25, 2008

The Divine Child

Today is Christmas, and as the western world celebrates --in some form or another-- the birth of the Christ Child, and the triumph of light over darkness, I am inspired to write about the Divine Child archetype. (BTW: Lots of videos in this post. Take your time; they're really sweet.) This archetype can seem a little inaccessible, but I'd like to point to some present-day examples that are a little easier to connect with.

I've always been drawn to Carl Jung and Joseph Campbell's work with archetypes. And I guess it was five years ago now that I obtained the Carolyn Myss book, Sacred Contracts, in which she rather blends an astrological chart system with a person's chosen 12 primary archetypes to learn about personality, life challenges, etc. Though I suspect she and ole C.J. might say that the archetypes choose the person. That's the "contracts" part: That you come into this life having previously made a contract of sorts for the kinds of things you're suited to do.
Five years ago, I took myself and this book off to Breitenbush Hot Springs during the Autumnal Equinox -- which also happens to be a women-only time and also happens to be a silent retreat time -- to spend the weekend working through the exercises in the book to discover my 12 archetypes. All there was to do there is eat, soak, rest, and read and write about archetypes. Rinse, repeat. There was blessedly none of the chit-chat at meals or anywhere else: "Where are you from? What workshop are you doing? I'm a social worker from Portland... wocka wocka wocka..." In the span of the weekend, I was able to stay focused, and "find" all 12 of my archetypes, which I may share about later.

Carolyn Myss theorizes that everybody has four main archetypes in the mix of the 12: Child, Victim, Saboteur, and Prostitute. And before that starts sounding questionable, it's important to think of archetypes as essentially neutral and capable of both positive and negative expression. Light and Shadow. Like electricity: It can light up a room or kill someone.
The child is the most readily understandable of the four. Sacred Contracts identifies several variations in the child archetype, the Divine Child being just one of them. We were all children once, and depending upon how it went, Myss suggests we might identify with the following:
  • Orphan
  • Wounded
  • Magical / Innocent
  • Nature
  • Divine
  • Eternal Boy or Girl
She devotes an entire chapter to the child archetype, and provides descriptions of each type in an appendix, with information about myth, religion, movies and literature in which each archetype has been featured. She says that everyone has expressions of each of these aspects of the Child Archetype, though one is usually dominant for each person.

She says that the Divine Child is closely related to the Magical / Innocent Child (think The Little Prince or Shirley Temple), "but is distinguished from them both by its redemptive mission...The Divine Child is associated with innocence, purity, and redemption; godlike qualities that suggest that the Child enjoys a speical union with the Divine itself."

There is, of course, the Christ child. Some have found parallels to the Egyptian god Horus, divine son of Isis and Osiris and Christ. In Buddhism, it is said that Siddhartha Gautama was born proclaiming the the cycle of birth and death was about to end. And not to leave out Jizo Bodhisattva, guardian of children, often pictured as a child-monk, and characterized by fearlessness and an undefended heart.

A person who has truly realized the principle of nonviolence has the God given strength for his weapon, and the world has not yet known anything that can match it.
~Gandhi

This is a powerful archetype to reveal itself in so many major religions -- such that it can be difficult to identify with. Myss proposes another example of an expression of the Divine Child archetype; someone currently living: The 14th Dalai Lama.

The movie Kundun portrays the Dalai Lama being found by the Tibetan Lamas, as a very young child he was drawn to them, and knew that certain personal items of the previous incarnation (even when placed among other very similar items) were "mine!"



The Dalai Lama has maintained his loving, open-hearted, childlike nature. Here he is talking about how interconnected we all are in the world, and how -- knowing this reality -- in the 21st Century, war is "outdated."



"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change."
-Carl Rogers

I appreciate this current-era example of the embodiment of the Divine Child archetype. One I would also add from the Christian tradition is none other than Mister Rogers.

Though he is no longer with us, the work of Mr. Fred Rogers embodies the Divine Child archetype. He was a Presbyterian minister, but once he saw television, he became very concerned with how it might be negatively impacting children, and said, "I went into television because I hated it so, and I thought there was some way of using this fabulous instrument to be of nurture to those who would watch and listen."

Here he is, single-handedly (single-heartedly?) winning back 10 million dollars for public television that was about to be cut by the Nixon administration in 1969:

I love it when he says, "Feelings are mentionable and manageable."

Here he is receiving a Lifetime Achievement Award at the Emmys in 1997.

Taking ten seconds to invite everyone to think about those "who loved us into being," Mr. Rogers opens the hearts of an entire auditorium.

And if you haven't already, seriously, grab some kleenex before you watch this, his good-bye message upon his retirement.

Jung wrote about the humble origins that often characterize the Divine Child. Also its paradoxical vulnerability alongside its uncommon strength and power. Entering through the lowly mess and chaos of a baby, the clear message of selfless devotion, love and peace. Fred Rogers, armed only with the Truth of his loving heart, wins 10 million dollars for public television. And keeps telling us over and over that we're wonderful just the way we are. The Dalai Lama, continues to view the Chinese as special friends, or important teachers, and harbors no ill-will towards the Chinese, whose occupation has perhaps inadvertently caused a worldwide interest in Buddhism.

An acorn is another good symbol for the Divine Child. Within its seemingly tiny confines, it embodies all of the majesty of the oak tree. A miracle, if ever there was one.

Monday, December 22, 2008

Arctic Blast 2008!!! Okay, for reals this time...

This just might be a second week away from work -- except this week would be due to an actual weather event!
We got snow, then we got a quarter inch of ice, then another few inches of snow -- I am estimating about six inches of snow out there in my area, and Portland is just so ill-equipped for this! The place is just locked up, and I am hoping that those folks that are on the roads are really really needing to be there.
I had walked to the grocery store when the snow was about 2" deep, and we are still pretty well-stocked. I shoveled out sidewalks and some of the backyard so that Cody the geriatric wonder dog can get out and go potty.
Shoveling is great exercise. I can see why people have heart attacks doing it. It's hard to stop once you get started! Also, we are one of the few homes in the Portland metro-area that actually own a snow shovel. The only reason we do, is that it was a gift from our former neighbor across the street who had a hoarding problem. She moved, found that she had four of them, and was able to let one go.
But the most wonderful thing, aside from the obvious nearly 2-week break from work, is these boots:
They were purchased at Fred Meyer in the first round of stocking up. I had been coveting them for some time, and when I saw that they had my size, I tried them on, and it was like Cinderella. Seriously.

My neighbor measured 11" of snow in his front yard today. Next time I go out, I'll bring the tape measure.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Arctic Blast 2008!!!

Gosh it has been a while since I have posted.

Things have been busy with caregiving of Patrick and his post-surgeried foot with big, thumping cast. He has terrible balance to start with, so hopping around is not really a safe option. Hence two crutches at all times if he is to get around anywhere. So he's pretty much out of commission, and now I am realizing just how equitable our division of labor had been! Patrick says he has had a hard time accepting the generosity that his injury has required, but my experience is that he has been quite gracious.
THEN we are having what the Portland area news calls the "Arctic Blast." It has been mostly a lot of TV news bombast and drama-mongering, predicting a mix of snow, rain, and freezing rain, freezing on the roads in the mornings or the afternoon drive times. They've been saying this for the past four days. Now if it had actually happened, it would have been quite an event. It did happen one time four years ago, catching all the weather people completely off guard and shut Portland down in a solid sheet of ice for three full days. But it really hasn't happened this time. Just some gentle snow that gets a little melty in the afternoon.

The breathless predictions did result in my agency's E.D.'s decision to cancel THE ENTIRE WEEK of work. Yes, the entire week. I am giddy with this sudden powerball jackpot of at-home vacation time. Somebody said it was crazy for him to cancel so much in advance. To which I replied, "If by crazy, you mean COMPLETELY AWESOME, then yes!"


I was able to get out and do a big grocery shop, and even got my hair cut. I have been able to get to so many projects that have been languishing. I have done so many things of the rearranging-the-spice-rack caliber. And I've been making a nice breakfast lunch and dinner for us every day, keeping the house clean, and really enjoying the caregiving because I'm not worn out coming home from a full day of providing care elsewhere. I have also obtained and decorated the holiday tree, did the holiday cards (which turned out smashingly well I might add), and many other items of fabulousness.
So I like to say I am personally having an Arctic Blast. My friend Kayci says it's been anti-climatic. This will surely go down in agency lore -- Luxury Week 2008 -- or something like that. I have been enjoying it so much that I was starting to feel guilty about it. I had to talk that out. So now it's right back to awesome.

So here's a taste of Arctic Blast 2008!!! from my backyard. Enjoy: